6. Redefining Success: Breaking Free from the Myth of Having It All for a More Fulfilling Life
Let’s have an important conversation about a myth that’s been running us ragged for decades — the idea that we, as women, can “have it all.”
I believe that we as women can live the life we’ve always dreamed of, but it means making really discerning choices about how we spend our limited resources of time and energy.
I know what it’s like. There was a time when I thought I needed to be Martha Stewart (pre-jail) in the home, mom of the year, the glue that keeps the family together, a boss in the boardroom, and the best friend, all while looking amazing and keeping a smile on my face.
Spoiler alert: it didn’t work out well for me. In fact, it doesn’t seem to be working out very well for any of us. I talk to women every day who are working more hours than they were hired for and not finding satisfaction with their families, marriages, or themselves.
It’s time to call out the unrealistic expectations and redefine success in a way that actually serves us.
In this week’s episode, we explore the myth of 'having it all,' exposing society's unrealistic expectations, especially for women.
Here's what you'll hear in this week's episode. This is an important one, ladies!
How historical viewpoints on women's roles have evolved over time
Looking closely at the challenges of balancing family, career, and societal expectations
How to dismantle unrealistic standards and prioritize personal values over external validation
The reframe to help you set better boundaries
How to watch out for the sneaky comparison trap
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction: The Myth of Having It All
00:30 Personal Experience: The Overwhelming Juggle
03:20 Societal Expectations and Gender Roles
06:06 The Shift Towards Equality
09:25 Unrealistic Expectations and Social Media
13:49 Redefining Success and Personal Alignment
22:01 Setting Boundaries and Self-Care
35:14 Practical Shifts and Redefining Productivity
37:19 Conclusion: You Are Enough
