7. Embracing Vulnerability: Unlocking Courage and Connection in Everyday Life

Vulnerability is the Way to Authentic Connection

What comes to mind when you think of vulnerability? 

Vulnerability is right up there with “shame” as a word that many people don’t like and want to avoid. 

But here's the thing …

Vulnerability is the key to unlocking the courage we need to do all the great things we want to do in life!

🫣 I feel tremendous vulnerability when I ask people for feedback. Maybe you do, too.

Our biggest fear is often that others won’t like us for who we are, and asking for feedback opens the doors to criticism on purpose. When we practice sharing and receiving feedback in my Dare to Lead training workshops (which is now enrolling!), I often have to walk through the process of giving feedback first because we're just as afraid to tell someone what they could improve on as we receive that information. 

According to Brené Brown, vulnerability is feeling uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure. 

When we’re afraid to be vulnerable, we’re then also afraid to be brave. 

Being vulnerable isn't a weakness. Instead, it's the required road to deeper connections and personal growth.

If you struggle with embracing vulnerability, this week's episode is for you. 

Here's what you'll hear about in this week's episode:

• Some of my own stories — speaking to you every week often feels vulnerable.

• The real impact of vulnerability and its significance in all your relationships.

• How to navigate the fear of emotional exposure when asking for feedback or voicing your feelings.

• How having hard conversations supports your mental wellness and boosts trust in relationships.

• Practical strategies to help you identify what you're feeling and set boundaries in a loving way.

• How we can use vulnerability to do scary things with bravery.

Self-compassion also comes in handy when we're learning to embrace vulnerability. You'll hear all about this too 🙂

Connect with me

Get in touch on Facebook or LinkedIn and let me know how you're being vulnerable this week.

Join me in an upcoming Dare To Lead Workshop or in the inaugural round of The Overwhelm Cure Program.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction to Embracing Vulnerability

01:14 The Fear and Misconceptions of Vulnerability

02:39 The Pressure of Perfectionism

04:45 Reframing Vulnerability as Strength

05:45 Building Authentic Connections

09:00 The Role of Vulnerability in Leadership

12:45 Steps to Embrace Vulnerability

19:12 The Benefits of Embracing Vulnerability

21:44 Personal Journey and Encouragement

24:22 Conclusion and Call to Action