61. A Moms Guide to Letting Go of Self-Sacrifice

Tired of feeling like a mean mom? I’ve been there, snapping at my kids for no good reason, wondering why I couldn’t just be nice. 

It turns out I didn’t set out to be a mean gremlin. I just fell into a trap—a trap society places in front of every mom — the trap of self-sacrifice that leaves us feeling drained and resentful. 

In this episode of the Therapy Explained Podcast, I share why a manager client felt unfulfilled despite having everything she wanted. I explore the societal pressures that link productivity to self-worth and the impact this has on women's mental health.

If you can relate, don’t miss this episode. I’m sharing: 

  • My burnout story: how people-pleasing turned me into a mom and partner I didn’t recognize 

  • My biggest tip for easing into self-care if it feels overwhelming or selfish to you right now 

  • How I learned to say no so I could bring more energy home to my family (and myself) 

Time Stamps:

00:00 Introduction to Therapy Explained Podcast

00:25 Client's Story: Unhappiness Despite Success

01:33 The Myth of Productivity and Self-Worth

04:25 The Importance of Self-Care and Sleep

06:09 Identifying and Prioritizing What Matters

08:10 Personal Reflections and Realizations

Kimberly Knull, RPsych

Kimberly Knull is a Registered Psychologist, motivational speaker and trained by Brené Brown as a Dare to Lead™ and Daring Way™ facilitator. She’s the Co-Founder of Momentum Walk-In Counselling Society, recognized as one of Avenue magazine’s Top 40 Under 40, and dabbled as a local celebrity as CBC AM Radio’s parenting columnist. Her favorite pastimes include whipping up a yummy cheese souffle, hanging with friends, riding her horses or playing the piano. She lives with her husband and two girls in Edmonton, Alberta, but has big dreams of moving to the country.

https://www.kimberlyknull.com
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